We always think that we are good, better and most outstanding than others, but it is only on our mere consciousness that we think that we are above others. Nevertheless, a person thinks of superseding expectations on his output thinks that he is above others but to the fact that he is a making a clown of himself. Individuality expresses uniqueness but detrimental to society. Either by language, race, or gender is a mere differentiation on our sociological norms. But even on this kind of mentality, our uniqueness should not brutally disrespect other individual by making them less more important a value as they perceive themselves.
First, when you perceive that you are above others it comes with a responsibility that they are within your grasp. Response – ability is bigger not only on yourself, but also through others. The ability to respond in a manner that you don’t offend others and still maintaining respect; is an attitude that comes in handy that on the moment of need you become dependable and humble. Not to boast yourself that it was only you that made everything, every project and every moment successful. If this the case, you are already repaid on what you did.
Second, when you think that you can push people and make their life worst… think again. The golden rule supersedes everything, so in the same manner others are able to be the worst kind if you think you can be the worst for them. It goes only to show how weak a person is if he cannot help others, to help others with a heart and soul not just to let others know that you are all-knowing than them. The eyes of a kind heart is much more powerful than a deafening sense of self pride. Fulfillment on self worth is important than recognition only by selfishly proving your worthy of any position by discriminating others and pinning them down. If this is the case, you will be remembered by others not by the good deeds but by the hurts that you have imparted on others.
Lastly, talk at the human level and not just talk nonsense by using highfalutin expressions. It only shows that you are pompous and heightened speeches that you come up just to show others that you are mere more knowledgeable than others. The more a person engages in a conversation, that more that he doesn’t want to get to understanding and still insist on what he wants. He is not aware of the dangers of miscommunication that he could create because he is thinking that he is making a point of himself and thinks that he is clear of it. Take note that communication comes with a transmitter, and receiver. Transmitter engages by relaying message to the receiver, the latter then receives the message but with overacting reactions that sounds like a cartoon on a sponge bob movie, distortions are created. Thus, making it difficult to understand what message that the transmitter is conveying. If this is the case, misunderstanding and disengagement is a possible result.
Ideas are meant to be used with these three factors emphasized on the previous paragraph. First, Responsibility. Second is being Kind and lastly Communicate on receivers level. Ideas should be communicated in the receivers level on a kind and appropriate manner and has the ability to respond kindly upon engagement on receiver. Hope in the coming years, Value either behavioral or moral are treasured than knowledge and skills.